Official Academy Affiliate
of Sporting Kansas City

Parenting with Character
MODEL appropriate behavior
Cheer for your team and not against the opponent
Never yell at an official or question a call on the field
Leave the coaching to the coaches and SUPPORT then in their efforts
Support your player with positive reinforcement but leave the coaching and soccer education to the coach
Thank you coach by practicing good communication skills and by supporting them
PRAISE and COMPLIMENT your child and avoid criticism
Support your player with positive reinforcement and encouragement
Allow adequate time and space for the player to decompress
Place the RESPONSIBILITY of getting ready and being prepared for practice of games on the player
Have your player show-up on time with the proper equipment and attire
Communicate any schedule conflicts with coaches and managers well ahead of time
Voice Concerns APPROPRIATELY
Wait 24 hours after a practice or competition before addressing a coach with questions
Calmly state your concerns, listen to the coaches answers, and keep an open mind while
respecting their authority as the decision maker
EMPHASIZE EFFORT and ENJOYMENT over winning
Praise the player immediately after a contest, regardless of a win or loss
Encourage players to always give 100 percent and show respect
BE ENGAGED in your club
Donate Time, Talent or Treasure; parent volunteers help keep a club running
Take an interest in the parents and other players on your team, be a team player
Problem solve any issues your child has WITH COACHES
Stay neutral and avoid making negative comments about the coach
Teach your player how to be an advocate for themselves directly with the coach